My name is Brenda, and I come from Kampala. For quite some time, I was involved with a man I truly loved, but his actions often made me feel unappreciated and unwanted. At the start of our relationship, he treated me wonderfully, called me frequently and always looked forward to spending time together. However, as time went by, his attitude changed, leaving me questioning whether I still mattered to him.

There were days when my boyfriend would go the entire day without calling or sending me a message, yet he always found time for his friends and personal activities. Sometimes, I had to call him repeatedly before he picked up, and even when he answered, our conversations rarely lasted long.

Whenever I tried to find out what had happened, he would simply say that he was busy. I kept making excuses for him, but the situation was slowly making me unhappy.
The most painful thing was realising that I was carrying almost the entire responsibility of keeping our relationship going. I was always the one initiating conversations, sending messages and suggesting when we should see each other.

At some point, I started wondering whether he would even realise my absence if I stopped reaching out. I genuinely loved him and wanted us to build a lasting relationship, but I was exhausted from constantly chasing someone who rarely made an effort to give me attention.
One day, as I searched the internet for advice on how to deal with the challenges in my relationship, I came.To see full details, click here d